Stress

Thw Stress of Adjusting to Change

THE STRESS OF ADJUSTING TO CHANGE

Events

Scale of Impact

Death of spouse

100

Divorce

73

Marital separation

65

Jail Term

63

Death of close family member

63

Personal injury or illness

53

Marriage

50

Fired at work

47

Marital Reconciliation

45

Retirement

45

Change in health of family member

44

Pregnancy

40

Sex Difficulties

39

Gain of new family member

39

Business readjustment

39

Change in financial state

38

Death of close friend

37

Change to different line of work

36

Change in number of arguments with spouse

35

Mortgage over $10,000

31

Foreclosure of mortgage or loan

30

Change in responsibilities at work

29

Son or daughter leaving home

29

Trouble with in-laws

29

Outstanding personal achievement

28

Wife begins or stops work

26

Begin or end school

26

Change in living conditions

25

Revision of personal habits

24

Trouble with boss

23

Change in work hours or conditions

20

Change in residence

20

Change in schools

20

Change in recreation

19

Change in church activities

19

Change in social activities

18

Mortgage or loan less than $10,000

17

Change in sleeping habits

16

Change in number of family get-togethers

15

Change in eating habits

15

Vacation

13

Christmas

12

Minor violations of the law

11

 

Stress in the Work Place

The turn of the 21st century has brought significant change to workplaces of every field. Companies have begun to invest in amenities that improve the office environment so that their employees are as comfortable as possible doing their jobs. We have seen offices go from grey high-walled cubicles and a simple coffee machine, to open-concept, bright and fully equipped with everything needed for optimal working conditions. Among perks such as free meals, extensive insurance benefits, built-in gyms, lavish restrooms complete with showers, and on-site healthcare, some companies have invested in mindful practice opportunities for their employees. Offices are typically high-stress environments because of work-related pressures, and huge companies such as Aetna and Google have prioritized and implemented stress-management programs for their employees in an effort to boost business productivity and workplace morale.

By investing in yoga and meditation programs that promote deep diaphragmatic breathing, workers report lower stress levels, higher mental focus, and fewer depressive episodes. The CEO of Aetna in fact, believes that “if we can create a healthier [employee], we can create a healthier world and a healthier company.” These programs also allow for better relationships between employers and their employees because of the degree of inclusivity and thereby promotes a friendlier work environment. All of these benefits encourage stability in the employees because they are able to balance work and life properly and feel comfortable dedicating themselves to the company they work for because of the company’s compassion. Mindfulness in the workplace stemming from a simple practice such as deep breathing poses a great benefit to the economy and society as a whole.

 

Take a Deep Breath

The following quote is from the American Institute of Stress:

"For many of us, relaxation means zoning out in front of the TV at the end of a stressful day. But this does little to reduce the damaging effects of stress. To effectively combat stress, we need to activate the body’s natural relaxation response. The “Relaxation Response” was discovered and coined by AIS Founding Trustee and Fellow, Dr. Herbert Benson. The relaxation response is a physical state of deep rest that changes the physical and emotional responses to stress (e.g., decreases in heart rate, blood pressure, rate of breathing, and muscle tension)."

Breathe Deep for Health and Wellness

There is a form of breathing that occurs naturally in mammals in a relaxed state. It can be described as deep, diaphragmatic abdominal or rhythmic breathing.

Human beings are no exception to this natural breathing rhythm. Just notice how the abdomen of a baby rises on inhalation and falls as on exhalation as it lies on its back relaxed.

Ever present stresses and strains of life make us lose this natural relaxed rhythm and adopt a habit of shallow chest breathing. This habit of breathing becomes our ordinary breath.

Breath is vital to life. Deep diaphragmatic breath is quality breath. Ordinary breath leads to ordinary lives and quality breath leads to quality lives. Ordinary breathing may sustain life, quality breath also enhances it.

Human brain: (a) the brain stem that runs autonomic body mind behavior, and (b) the neocortex which runs our thought process and volitional behavior.

Ordinary breathing is one of the many autonomous processes that sustain life. In addition, there are autonomous mental processes that drive reactive behavior. All autonomous body mind processes, including ordinary breathing, are run by the brain stem in accordance with our emotional states.

In addition to the brain stem, mammalian brain, human included, has another part called the neocortex. The role of the neocortex is to run volitional acts and behavior. Relaxed breathing, which occurs in mammals in the absence of an external threat, is a volitional act run by the neocortex.

Fundamental requirement of acting volitionally is being aware and knowing that something specific needs to be and can be done. Thus, awareness, consciousness, knowledge, thinking, discerning, considering alternatives, deciding, willing, the generation of a volitional response to an external stimulus etc. are all the functions of the neocortex. In addition, the neo-cortex is the seat of higher emotions of selfless love and compassion whereas the limbic brain is limited to base self-centered emotions that function largely in an autonomous manner.

Of all the mammals, human beings have the most developed neocortex. Human condition is such that we let this valuable resource sit idle and unused for the simple reason that we can survive letting the limbic brain run our lives autonomously. We must volitionally train our brains to use the thinking neocortex. We can practice volitional relaxed breathing for this purpose at any time of the day or night. Breathing is the only normally autonomic life process that we can at times run volitionally.

There is ample evidence to show that engaging in volitional deep diaphragmatic breathing rhythm for as little as 15-20 minutes can lead to quality lives:

  1. It is the most efficient way to supply abundant oxygen to the body to enhance physical health,

  2. It calms the nerves and balances related hormones for better physical and mental health,

  3. It requires the neocortex to continuously attend to breathing, thus increasing the duration of deep diaphragmatic breathing amounts to an increased attention span;

  4. Training of the neocortex to pay attention to breathing also trains it to pay attention in general including our behavior making it thoughtful,

  5. Training of the neocortex to pay attention to breathing also trains it to pay attention to the working of our own minds increasing emotional intelligence self-awareness and acceptance of the others,

  6. Training of the neocortex to pay attention to breathing also trains it to pay attention and solve life problems such as poverty, habits, addictions, relationships etc.,

  7. Involvement of the neocortex in regular practice of deep breathing opens our minds to higher emotions of selfless love and compassion, and

  8. It makes us the master of our own lives rather than being swept away in the tide of autonomic mind body behavior.

    Link for training videos: http://spiritualeducation.org/library/LearningResources/tyb_videos